Dating

I am really tired and i need to go to bed, but i need to charge my ipod right now, so here i am.

我想了一件事想了很久，今天我突然完全想通了，我可以寫出來了。

I'm willing to pursue God, even if it cost me everything, even my marriage. Well, i've made this decision quite a few months ago.

As most people know, I want to get married while i'm still in my early twenties, but not now. My mom prays that i will get married when i'm 22 years old. Well, i do not disagree with her, although most people think that's it's too young. NO, IT'S NOT. i won't explain it now, cause i have something more important to say.

So like, i was just telling you guys that i REALLY want to get married someday, but if it's God's will and GRACE that i'll stay single forever, then let His will be done. It's as good as getting married. That means my heart will be totally His alone. There's nothing to fear. Even if i get married someday, the one who can satisfy my heart is God, not man. What a husband can do is to support me and to fulfill our callings together.

Anyways, i was thinking about DATING. You have to admit that almost everyone gets excited when seeing the word "dating". But sorry, what i'm going to say will totally offense you for sure.... I DO NOT BELIEVE IN DATING. (the definition of dating: two person being together before getting engaged, maybe regarding each other as girlfriend or boyfriend, and are trying to find out if they suit each other and if he or she is the one.) seriously, let me say it again. I DO NOT BELIEVE IN DATING.

Why? because i believe in DIVINE MARRIAGE. I believe that God will CLEARLY tell you whether he or she is the one or not. You don't have to try to figure it out yourself and get hurt and all that stuff. If he or she is the one, then get engaged, and get married soon! This will stay you away from sinning.

Fortunately, that's how my mom thinks too. Get married as soon as possible once you are sure that he or she is the one no matter what circumstances you are in.

Think about it, if you really believe that God will tell you who the one is, then why do you have to figure it out yourself? He knows the answer, but you don't. We are just guessing around. I am sure that God will prepare your heart before telling you who the one is, so there is no need to panic that God might give you someone that you hate. I used to get really scared when i think of this, but now i know that God KNOWS my heart, and He KNOWS that i'm willing to seek His will, and HE WILL ALWAYS GIVE ME WHAT IS BEST FOR ME.

the end.


anyways, i was planning to type in Chinese, so there's one line in the top, but i don't know how i ended up typing English. aiyah... there might be lots of grammar mistakes, but i'm too tired to proofread it....

gnite.